I know life is a mess right now. You are sad and you are in pain, you have everyone but no one to talk about the stuff you are going through you need to know that you are strong, very strong. Believe in yourself, you might not feel it right now but trust me, you are.
You just lost someone who you thought was forever but you need to know that people will come and go, not everyone will live up to your expectations, not everyone will keep all the promises ,they’ll leave in the most unforgettable way, but your scars will heal with time.
Stop crying and and don’t try too hard to keep up a relationship and NEVER doubt on your self worth and know that you don’t need anyone to tell you how great you are because you should already know that, don’t try to spend time trying to impress people who don’t see the good in you.
Your first love might not be your last, your best friend forever and you will break up in the most unexpected way , you might fail your exams ,all those who call themselves your forever will not stay forever with you. We tend to find HOPE in both relationships and people but at some point we need to know that “Hope” is not for everyone and do not blame yourself for that.
You will meet some great people and a few terrible ones too, don’t shut yourself just because things didn’t go well with that one person ,The friends you’ll make in your 20’s will probably be the best and craziest ones. They’ll bring out the best in you and you need to know that you have great friends because you too are a great person, you will make mistakes you’ll fu*k things up ,but who does not? it’s a part of one’s learning process, we learn from our mistakes we just don’t have to repeat them again.
There is no right or wrong way to live your life, do what you want, enjoy, go wild for a while, fall in love, face that first breakup , you are the writer of your own story.
You’ll fall and you’ll hard but one day you’ll understand that all the mistakes , fu*k ups everything when added up made you who you are today and it doesn’t stop. Embrace and appreciate it. Just don’t be in denial, accept the reality and trust me it’s going to be easier and will eventually hurt less.
You’ll fall in love again, you’ll met new people, you’ll find a new best friend and they will love you , may be more than the ones you’ve been with, not everyone is your ex, just don’t be in the state of denial and accept the reality and try and move on with time, don’t be too harsh on yourself.
Be enough positive and confident that you can influence other people too ,because someday you’ll live in constant state of happiness with that one special person and your loved ones, who will be proud of you and nothing seems to be better than that picture.
………just hold on tight, it’s gonna be alright.
With love
Krishika Vashistha